Debbie Moon at 2012-08-30 12:37:45:
Given what people have been posting over the last few days, I'm going to take a guess that the theme is something to do with maturity (and the lack of it).
Juno wants to jump straight to being an adult. She thinks Paulie, who's very much a teenager, is an unsuitable partner for her because of that: she bonds with, and feels attracted to ,Mark because he's an adult, apparently the kind of cool adult she'd like to be.
But Mark isn't an adult, not mentally - and through that, Juno realises she isn't (and shouldn't be, yet) either.
So I guess that makes the theme "you don't have to be older than your years to be happy" or "be immature while you can, so when you're actually a grown-up, you'll be ready to be mature"... Those aren't brilliant, but it's somewhere in that area, I think.