Amos Posner at 2011-12-13 18:20:53:
It's not just name value. Studios often need someone they know will photograph well to show up with little or no rehearsal and minimal direction, but still get the job done. Known actors are known employees.
So you need to think of this in terms of leverage and value. Having someone with a name in that role is worth a lot to the studio, which not only has to buy the script, but develop it, produce it, market it, and distribute it. Even if this woman is insanely talented, it is absolutely unreasonable to expect a studio to give one of the lead roles to an unknown, even if she's a great fit. Think about it from the studio's side: Unless this script is being fought over by every studio and is somewhat cast-proof (like Avatar), why would they agree to this?
If you want to cast whoever you want, go indie. Nikki Reed got to be in Thirteen because she wrote it. But that was much lower budget and she already had a personal relationship with the director. But I can tell you from time in the indie development trenches that this sort of thing is hard to pull off even in much smaller budget movies. I don't mean to be a downer, but I've seen actor-writers demand to be in lead roles, and it can hold projects back.
To offer something more positive (and I really don't mean to be negative) one possibility is to make a short that showcases both her acting and your writing. Anything that makes it seem less like a condition and more like a flat-out good idea is helpful.