Never really knew what it was that I didn't enjoy about people's feedback and #5 explicitly states what it is: They don't just tell what's wrong, they tell you what to do.

I think an addendum to that tip is to also not break down your story to others until you've actually written it. I've made the mistake of talking about a story in the past and then feeling obligated to sticking with the story as I told it rather than letting it become what the characters told me it should become.

Also like #6. At some point you just have to move on. Heard that bit of advice on this page far too many times to not know it by now.

Liked these, especially #5, which i hadn't thought about before.

And really identify with Carlos' statement about "feeling obligated" to stick with the story as he first told it. Usually that story doesn't work (for me), but leads to something else if I let it.

Well-timed shout-out to this generous writer, given the current kerfluffle he's embroiled in, there's even a comic:
http://www.evilreads.com/blog/2011/5/4/neil-gaiman-vs-the-bully-comic.html
http://www.comicsalliance.com/2011/05/05/politicians-mother-makes-him-apologize-for-calling-neil-gaiman-pencil-necked-geek/

"One word after another" my OM, "write it honestly" is true north on my compass.